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Polanski, NAMBLA and Checking Our Moral Compass

Whoopi Goldberg said on The View it wasn’t “rape-rape.”  No, it was non-consensual anal intercourse of a child.  Are we so perverted we will excuse such conduct because the perpetrator is an “artist?”

With all the unpleasantness that’s been in the news lately (ACORN, Polanski, Jaycee Lee Dugard, etc.), I was reminded of a book titled “The Last Undercover” by my friend, fellow Marine, and Big Hollywood contributor, Bob Hamer.  Bob spent twenty-six years in the FBI, all as a special agent working the streets, many of those years in an undercover capacity. He was the undercover agent in twenty administratively approved operations. Some of those assignments lasted a day or two others more than three years. He played such diverse roles as a drug dealer, contract killer, international arms merchant, degenerate gambler, and white collar criminal. By his own admission his most difficult role was playing a pedophile for three years as he infiltrated the North American Man/Boy Love Association (NAMBLA).

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First, let me say that “The Last Undercover” is absolutely riveting.  Seeing inside an organization like NAMBLA, one that preys on children, through Bob’s eyes is enough to keep you up at night.  However, as things have transpired over the last few weeks, I couldn’t help but wonder about the people on the periphery of such groups and individuals.  For instance, I remembered the travel agent in Bob’s book that was more than happy to set up the NAMBLA members’ trip to have sex with children.  Sure, he didn’t have sex with kids but, if he could make a few bucks off of others doing it, he was pretty okay with the idea.  How about the lovely folks at ACORN?  Setting up a brothel for underage prostitutes?  Okay, let’s figure out the tax ramifications for such a venture.  Then, of course, we have the folks that are defending the talented Mr. Polanski.

So, what is it with these people?  Why the indifference to the idea of adults having sex with children? In what universe is this behavior acceptable?

I decided to talk to my buddy, Bob, to get his take on it.

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J.R. Head:  Bob, you spent a lot of time and energy taking down the folks at NAMBLA.  As a father, hell, as a human being, I’d like to thank you for that.  Right now, though, I’m trying to look at the bigger picture.  What are your thoughts about these folks on the periphery of such activity, the facilitators and enablers of sex with children?

Bob Hamer:  Wow!  No softball questions from you right out of the chute.

JRH:  Not today.

BH:  Well, I have never met a capitalist pacifist who owned gun store.  I believe fundamentally, the pacifist does not want to encourage what he perceives as a potential for violence, even if it might be profitable to own a gun store.  I’m a gun owner so don’t jump on me for that illustration but those I met while working undercover who helped facilitate sex with children saw nothing wrong with what they believed to be “consensual” sex with a child.  In fact, most believed an “enlightened” society would see the benefits of encouraging sex between consenting individuals of any age.  No one satisfactorily identified to me what those benefits were but “boy-lovers” as NAMBLA members refer to themselves often cite the ancient Greeks as an enlightened society.  The travel agent had no objection to putting together overseas trips even though he claimed not to be sexually attracted to boys.

JRH:  So, it was about the money?

BH: Certainly there was a profit motive for him but he saw nothing wrong with men having sex with boys and told me so.  Had he found the actions abhorrent I would hope he would never facilitate such conduct.

A Chicago psychologist we arrested who had a PhD told me of seeing a five-year-old operating out of a boy-bar in Thailand.  The psychologist said he did not have sex with that particular boy because the child “didn’t do anything for me, but I can’t be…a hypocrite and say, you know, ‘don’t do that…’” The psychologist told me his age of preference was “ten to twelve” and saw nothing wrong with his conduct. In fact, he bragged about his conquests.

JRH:  So, in his mind, having sex with kids is okay but God forbid he gets called a hypocrite.  Those are some messed up priorities, man.  Give me some info on NAMBLA.  What’s their story?

BH:  NAMBLA was formed in 1978.  Ostensibly its purpose was to abolish age-of-consent laws.  As my three-year infiltration demonstrated, the organization made no effort whatsoever to change the law.  Its sole purpose was to allow like-minded men, sexually attracted to boys, to legally congregate under the protection of the 1st Amendment.  Even their definition of “consensual” differed from mine and I hope all of our readers.  They essentially defined “consensual” as “not bringing physical harm.”  I sat through a discussion where men believed it permissible to have oral sex with an eighteen-month-old boy as long as the boy wasn’t physically harmed.

JRH:  You’re kidding me.  How the hell do they justify that?

BH:  They justified the action because a child, while exploring his own body, might like the gentle touch of fondling himself.  Since the men believed they were in essence bringing pleasure to the child, their actions were permissible, even proper.  When that is your worldview, when you support men who believe those actions to be proper, it is easy to justify a lot of actions the rest of society deems illegal, even evil.

Most NAMBLA members with whom I interacted believe the boy-lover philosophy will be mainstreamed within their lifetimes.  I would have never thought that even remotely possible until recently.

JRH:  That’s the vibe I’ve been getting lately, too.  While reading “The Last Undercover,” I was filled with feelings of revulsion and anger about what these predators do.  I was especially disturbed to hear how they “profile” their potential prey and engage in the “grooming” of the target and the target’s family.  On the other hand, an understanding that the vast majority of people in the country would feel the same way about it comforted me.  However, the Polanski situation has kind of made me reevaluate my worldview.  Is the moral outrage over having sex with children eroding before our very eyes?

BH:  After investigating organized crime, drugs, terrorism, and child exploitation for two and a half decades, little shocks me but I am appalled at the Roman Polanski apologists.  Since when does being a “brilliant, fantastic genius” excuse anyone from heinous criminal conduct?  He admitted guilt.  He drugged, raped, and sodomized a thirteen-year-old girl.  Are we to excuse him only because his talent brought him riches and therefore he was wealthy enough to flee punishment?  Does Hollywood creativity allow one an alternative moral universe?

Whoopi Goldberg said on The View it wasn’t “rape-rape.”  No, it was non-consensual anal intercourse of a child.  Are we so perverted we will excuse such conduct because the perpetrator is an “artist?”  How can any parent or a person with a conscience condone such behavior?  Imagine the outrage of these same apologists had this been a TV evangelist or a priest.

I admire the victim who has forgiven Polanski but criminal charges are brought by the state.  A criminal indictment does not read “victim vs. defendant.”  It is the state or the federal government versus the accused.  Society is harmed by criminal conduct.  Apparently Polanski’s harm was greater than I first thought and not just to the child victim. It has infected a certain segment of society which condones the behavior and believes he should go unpunished.  Read the charges!  Read his admissions!  He deserves to be punished.

Polanski’s status as a Holocaust survivor has been cited as a reason excusing his criminal actions. As horrible as that experience must have been I can’t help but remember another survivor, Tibor Rubin. He wanted to pay back America for liberating him from the Mauthausen concentration camp in May 1945. Rubin joined the Army, fought in Korea, and was awarded the Medal of Honor.

JRH:  I’ve met Mr. Rubin.  He struck me as an extremely humble and unassuming man.  He has an incredible story and I encourage my readers to look him up on the web.  That being said, Polanski is just one part of this.  The folks at ACORN who turned a blind eye to what they believed to be a brothel for child prostitutes also bothered me.  Now, I’m hearing about this Jennings fellow.  Do you have any insight into that?

BH:  Kevin Jennings is President Obama’s Assistant Deputy Secretary of the Office of Safe and Drug Free Schools at the U.S. Department of Education.  His history and beliefs are well documented in the numerous books he has authored and edited.  There is some dispute as to the legality of his conduct while working as a teacher but by Jennings’ own admission the only counseling he gave a male high school student, who admitted having sex with a man he met in a public restroom, was to use a condom.  Jennings also has high praise for Harry Hay.  If NAMBLA had a Hall of Fame, Hay would be a member.  Hay fought for NAMBLA’s inclusion in the International Lesbian and Gay Association and once carried a sign proclaiming “NAMBLA Walks With Me.”  Although Hay died before I was invited to attend any of NAMBLA’s secret, underground meetings, Hay was a featured speaker at several NAMBLA conferences and at forums on man/boy love.  When members of the Administration admit to admiring a NAMBLA icon it gives me cause for concern and is at the very least a reason for further inquiry.

JRH:  I agree.  Do you feel like this is part of an inevitable coarsening of society in regards to the sexualization of children?

BH: What struck me about NAMBLA was how many men I encountered were high functioning members of our society…doctors, lawyers, ministers, teachers.  Yet these men looked upon boys as sexual objects and had no desire to change their behavior.  In the case of Polanski, “artists” are apologists for child rape.  As to ACORN, let me say I have the highest regard for the work of James O’Keefe and Hannah Giles.  The ACORN tapes reinforce the idea that a segment of this society is unable to discern evil.  How can you label oral sex on infants or rape of a thirteen-year-old girl or promoting childhood prostitution as anything but evil?  We as a society must remain vigilant and maintain our moral compass.  I fear too many have lost theirs or never had one.

JRH:  I fear you may be right.  Thank you, Bob, for your service, your courage and for taking some time to talk with me, today.

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‘Grateful Nation’ Debuts Tomorrow on ESPN2

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On Saturday, October 3rd, a fantastic new show premieres on ESPN2.

Grateful Nation is a unique and compelling outdoor adventure series that goes behind the scenes and into the field with American Veterans. Hosted by Airborne Ranger Tim Abell, this original unscripted program takes viewers inside the minds of wounded combat veterans and returns them to their traditional American hunting heritage.

Tim’s innovative interviewing strategy together with stunning HD videography launches Grateful Nation into a unique category that captures a whole new audience of sportsmen and patriots.”

The first episode of “Grateful Nation” follows actor and Army Veteran Tim Abell and Army Sergeant First Class Greg Stube on the hunt of a lifetime.

I’ve had the pleasure of speaking with SFC Greg Stube via telephone and was immediately struck by his eloquence.  Greg has the unusual ability to talk about enormous concepts on a very small and personal level.  I sometimes find it difficult to speak clearly about the ideas of duty and sacrifice.  SFC Stube speaks of such things with deep understanding and with perfect clarity.  He learned first hand and up close what these concepts are all about.

From his bio:

In September of 2006, SFC Stube was very seriously wounded during Operation Medusa in Afghanistan.

On a hill called Sperwan Ghar, in southwest Afghanistan, Stube and fellow Special Forces team members were involved in a massive attack by enemy Taliban forces that had dug in, waiting for a fight.  As his fighting vehicle moved up the hill, days after the fighting had begun; it was hit by an IED – seriously wounding Stube.  Focusing on his wounds and pulling from his Special Forces medical training, Stube guided other SF A-team members in combat trauma care until he was moved out of danger.  His awards include the Bronze Star and the Purple Heart.  Currently assigned to the U.S. Army Special Operations Command Public Affairs Office, Stube continues to serve within his capabilities to promote awareness of the commitment and sacrifice of American service members and their families.  In a program called “Service Beyond Sacrifice,” Stube endeavors to relate to Americans about why service to our country is not only important, but worth sacrificing for.

I’ve known the host of “Grateful Nation,”  Tim Abell, for a few years.  He is a veteran, an accomplished actor and an avid outdoorsman who shares a deep appreciation for the men and women who serve our country.  I’m proud to call him my friend.  He agreed to answer some questions about the show.

J.R. Head: Tim, tell me about “Grateful Nation.”

Tim Abell:  ”Grateful Nation” is a series that delves into the life, service, sacrifice and rehabilitation of our servicemen wounded in the global war on terror. We explore their life while afield, a place where many of them grew up hunting with their fathers and a place many thought they would never again experience after being severely wounded in combat. We also explore their support system back home. From their moms, dads, wives and children to their doctors, nurses, teammates and fellow wounded.

JRH:  How did you get involved with the show?

TA:  SFC Stube was asked to speak at the 2008 National Rifle Association convention along with Mitt Romney, Senator John McCain, Governor Mike Huckabee, and former Navy SEAL Marcus Luttrell.  SFC Stube, so inspired the audience with his words that Beretta General Manager, Christopher Merritt and Mark De Young, President of ATK/Federal, along with Chris Dorsey, President of Orion Multimedia, decided to create a series to honor our wounded warriors and allow their stories to be told.

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SFC Stube was asked to host the series but, due to still being on active duty with the United States Army Special Operations Command (USASOC) at Fort Bragg, NC, he had to decline the offer.  The producers and sponsors of “Grateful Nation” were looking for someone who might have a rapport with each of the soldiers selected to be honored each episode.  I had been involved with another outstanding Orion Media outdoor series called “The Federal Experience”.  I guess they figured that my being a former ranger with 2/75th Ranger Regiment might give me an edge.

After filming in the beautiful Rocky Mountains of British Columbia for 10 days with the series’ first guest soldier, Special Forces SFC Greg Stube, it became apparent that this new series would not only be an exciting outdoor adventure, but also a touching and poignant look into each soldier’s service, sacrifice and life.  I am extremely honored to have been asked to host this series and to be in the company of such brave and patriotic men.

JRH:  Having had some experience in an outdoor series, what did you expect this one to be like?

TA:  I have to say that I really didn’t know what to expect. These men have been through so much mental and physical duress, along with pain and suffering in a myriad of ways that I can’t even fathom. From being shot, sometimes several times, blown up by IEDs, EFPs, hand grenades and RPGs, to being doused in fuel and set on fire and suffering severe burns over the majority of your body, to the mental anguish of survivor’s guilt. These soldiers’ lives changed in an instant. One second laughing, smoking and joking, and the next…BANG!  An IED explodes near your vehicle… When the smoke clears and your training takes over, you assess the situation… Where are my men, my friends?  Where the hell are my legs, arms, hands…my face?  Are we still taking fire?  How do I help my fellow soldiers?

JRH:  Not knowing what to expect, did you go in with an idea of a particular tone you wanted to set for the series?

TA:  Greg Stube set the tone for my approach to hosting “Grateful Nation”.  Greg and I bonded in many ways during our time filming in the snow covered Rockies.  I learned so much from him and how he sees life, and I am a better man for it.  Watching Greg on horseback for hours, heading up steep mountain trails, knowing he was in pain from his many surgeries to re-attach is right leg, his skin grafts to a major portion of his body to heal 3rd degree burns, numerous surgeries to address a wound channel created by a one pound piece of shrapnel which traveled from his right buttock though his body, which took out 70% of his insides, and gunshots through his torso as well, I asked if he’d like to stop and rest a while.  A smile crossed his lips and he said, “I’ll be alright.  I can deal with the pain.  I just wish my doctors could see me right now so they could see what fine work they’ve done. They would be proud.”  That took my breath away. Here is a man on a hard mountain ride, who’s never been on a horse, who is in pain from his many injuries, and all he would like is for his doctors to see the outstanding job they have accomplished on his body.  No whining, just a man happy to be alive and appreciative of  the great care he received from his medical staff and his wife Donna.

JRH:  That is simply inspiring.  I didn’t talk to Greg much about his injuries.  I had no idea of the extent of them.  Even so, he made a great first impression on me during our first phone conversation.  What was your immediate impression of him?

TA:  I did my research on SFC Greg Stube, prior to filming.  What an outstanding individual!  I watched his speech at the 2008 NRA convention via my laptop and was instantly moved by his ease and honesty on stage.  His voice has a slight soothing southern lilt that draws you into his stories.  His descriptions of the firefight at the battle of Sperwan Ghar during Operation Medusa were quite vivid without being braggadocious or full of bravado.  He talked of the heroism of his fellow Special Forces comrades, how they risked life and limb to extinguish the fire from his fuel drenched uniform and helped drag him out of the line of fire.  Stube talked about how, being an 18D (Special Forces medic), he diagnosed his wounds as being beyond repair, about how he heard his commanding officer weep when he thought he was dead and how that moved him.  He talked about the care he received from his medical staff and especially his wife Donna, whom he wasn’t sure would still love him the same after sustaining such horrible wounds.  He told me about his best friend and teammate, Bill Brown, who was killed in action shortly after he (Stube) was grievously wounded.  He talked about all this without any remorse or regret, “Service to our country is not only important but sometimes worth sacrificing for”.  I was moved.

Greg was just as humble in person. When I asked him what it was like coming home to a hero’s welcome, he said, “We don’t want to be heroes, we were just doing our jobs.  All we want to do is come home and be one of you again”.  And by the end of filming, we had laughed together, cried together, challenged ourselves, shared stories of our families, loved ones, friends, military experiences, and in doing so, we became great friends.

JRH:  What was the most surprising thing about the experience?

TA:  The most surprising thing to me about all of these soldiers is that without exception, each and everyone of these men, would do what they did again. They may wish for a different outcome, but, they would all volunteer and do it again.

SPC Louis Dahlman (featured in Episode 6 on November 7th), who lost his entire lower jaw and face from an EFP (Explosively Formed Projectile) while manning the turret in his Humvee, says that it doesn’t bother him when people stare at him, because his wounds are the result of fighting for our country, and of that he is proud.

JRH:  What do you hope the viewers take away from “Grateful Nation”?

TA:  I hope that viewers of “Grateful Nation” will come away with a better understanding of our military men and women.  Why they choose to serve our great nation in such a selfless manner in spite of the danger they face on a daily basis.  I want viewers to know who they are, what they have suffered and how they have recuperated and recovered enough to move on with their lives and to be able to join me on these outdoor adventures. I want our viewers and the country to know what these brave and honorable men have sacrificed for all of us, so that we may enjoy the freedoms that we enjoy.

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“Grateful Nation” premieres on Saturday morning, October 3rd at 7:30 AM EST.  Set your TiVo, now.

Semper fi,

J.R. Head

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